Thank you for this further feedback to reflect on.. I am not the doer, and recognize it is the Higher Self behind the ego/personality that is performing the deeds and how the ego will begin to more so dissolve is great reflection. I also work in a restaurant, where i am constantly serving people (salad bar.. lol) and i see how important it is to recognize how i am serving the Self in other people and not there egos. This will allow the integral process to develop further i see. Very profound feedback for further reflection Seba Dja.
Dua Seba Dja!